From the monthly archives:

April 2011

Time To Move On…?

by Steve Buelow

Leadership Marketing

“So, how do you know when it’s time to move on in your career?”

In one form or another, it’s a question I get asked fairly often… in fact, the topic came up several times in the last few days.

Then again, I suppose it’s not surprising given that, in survey after survey, over half the population says they’d do something else… if, their financial future was assured through other means.

And people are really wrestling with this.

“I’m thinking about looking for a new job, what do you think?” asked one. “I’m worried about the economy, but I’ve always wanted to work for myself and I’m not getting any younger,” said another.

Or, earlier today on e-mail, “I can’t explain it. I’ve been the top-producer for six years, but for the first time… I just don’t even want to get on that plane next week.”

Now, admittedly… I have only worked for someone else for a GRAND TOTAL of FIFTEEN MONTHS in the last TWENTY-FOUR YEARS. However, with companies that I have owned, I HAVE had to decide when it was time to hang up one vision… to pursue another.

So how do you know?

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Well… in searching for my own answers, I found that I needed to be completely honest about three questions.

First, had I taken the business as far as I COULD take it? This really meshes the issues of ability and capacity.

Second, had I taken the business as far as I was WILLING to take it? Obviously, this gets to the heart of important Values issues.

And third, was the benefit of sticking with the status quo outweighed by the cost (lost opportunities) of not changing? Put another way… is there something else I could (and should) be doing?

Pretty simple stuff, really… and practical too!

But what if you don’t work for yourself… what if you’re an employee… and what did I recommend to my friends and associates who brought it up to me this week?

I assume you won’t be shocked if I tell you that I asked three questions!

First, do you believe that your company’s solution is the BEST option for your customers and prospects?

And second, do you believe in the integrity, character, and competence of your company’s leadership team?

Quite simply, if you cannot answer “Yes” to both of those questions… it is time to move on. Life is too short to promote products you don’t believe in… or people you don’t trust.

Period.

“Now wait, Steve… you said there were THREE questions.” And, of course you are correct.

The third question sheds light on where you may want to consider going next, if indeed… you answered “No” to either of the first two questions.

Ask yourself whether you believe you can make a bigger impact on your own.

In other words, can you move the dial… can you innovate… can you improve this (or another) market by bringing your talent, energy, and passion to the game as the leader of your own team?

If so, it is likely that there are people who have been waiting to meet you… possibly praying to meet you… they just didn’t know who you were!

We all need to search for our own answers… I’d love to hear yours!

 

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James Thompson

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Not Funny…

by Steve Buelow

Leadership

Fear is a funny thing.

Well actually, I don’t mean funny… funny. I mean sort of strange, somewhat troubling, quirky, mysterious and often unexplained… funny.

For example, even at fifty… I can stand on one foot for what seems like forever, or walk the rail of a railroad track for hundreds of yards without even a chance of falling off.

No problem.

Maybe it’s just my low center of gravity, but I’ve always had incredible balance, and have been doing it since I was a kid.

So, that’s what’s so weird. On a trip to the Grand Canyon or Niagara Falls… I felt like I was going to fall over the edge from thirty feet away!

Similarly, I have OFTEN been perfectly content hanging off the edge of a wobbly extension ladder while painting the second story of a house… but climbing the stairs of a completely solid Ranger’s tower makes me, well… glad I’m not a Ranger!

“C’mon, Steve… get with it”, you say. “Face your fear.”

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On Thursday, May 17th, 1984, I drove down the driveway of the inner-city Milwaukee flat in which I lived. Ninety days later, I would leave for good… but that’s ANOTHER story.

On THIS day, my five-year-old Yamaha was loaded for travel, and I was off to meet a friend in Chicago, and then west across the plains to Denver and beyond… a Rocky Mountain motorcycle trip that we had dreamed about for several years.

And oh… the stories! I could write a… I may write a… I really OUGHTA write a book.

But, alas… I digress. This story, if you remember, is about fear!

Throughout the trip, this quirky fear of heights came and went. Sometimes non-existent… other times, powerful and stifling. And then I remembered an ad that I had seen right before we left… an ad for skydiving!

Show up in the morning… attend a few hours of ground-school… jump from a plane at 10,000 feet in the afternoon!

“THIS IS IT!”, I yelled. “This IS the ticket!”

I mean, what better way to conquer a fear of heights than to jump out of an airplane!? No instructor… just you, anchored to a static cord… out the door and into the wild blue!

And jump we did.

Heart rate steady at sixty beats per minute… nearly silent… absolutely NO FEAR… peace.

It was a thing of beauty…

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I heard somebody say once that action CURES fear… though I think that maybe this was a bit of a generalization made by someone who was trying to get someone else to do something!

To be sure, there are times where our fear is completely justified… and, in fact, there’d be something wrong with us if we WEREN’T afraid. And in such situations… action is often EXACTLY what’s necessary. Indeed, bravery… or courage, is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to take action in spite of it.

But then there are those other circumstances… you know, where fear can be just a weird, annoying, irrational emotion. What should we do then… and is there REALLY an action that cures THAT fear? Will jumping out of an airplane, for example… CURE a fear of heights?

Here’s what I know for sure.

Skydiving is a blast, and so is piloting small aircraft… I went ahead and got my pilot’s license nineteen years ago, and have enjoyed every minute. I also love Ferris Wheels, Roller Coasters, and Theme Park rides that launch you hundreds of feet into the air.

And here’s what else I know.

As of yesterday, the last flight of stairs on the Ranger’s tower was, well… really, REALLY irrational!

 

I look forward to speaking with you soon!

 

Questions:

Is fear stopping you from any activity in your personal or professional life?

What is your plan to go over, around, or through it?

What will you do Monday morning to move the dial?

 

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